Okay so it wasn't Torqx, it was actually Hex-drive...I just didn't look closely...for all those that wan t to know, it is a 10mm Hex-Drive bit...
So this is turning out to be a little more work than I had originally anticipated....The problem comes from filling the fluids....
Rear-Diff: fill hole is about 1/2" in diameter, can't line up the gear oil bottle, so used a hose from home depot that was too big for the hole 5x8 OD-1/2 ID, and cut it so it fits and pour the gear oil straight into it a little messy, but works pretty well.
Transfer-Case: Holy crap this was a pain....BTW ATF tastes like a$$. So first attempt at funnel + hose was a disaster, it crimped and I got to taste ATF!!!! So up went the pathy onto jackstands....finally found a place to put the funnel and hose so it would not make as much of a mess (still have the wrong size hose and funnel...I need to work on that for next time)....it was still a pain because I had to get the bottle over the rear drive shaft and get it poured into the funnel...but finally got the Transfer case re-filled...
Also, the washers......so NO Nissan dealer in the state stocks them...so I had them grab me a tech and talked to him...it appears that the just re-use the washer....However, the service manual says that is a NO-NO, but it is hard to argue with stocking practices and the tech....So if they leak....I will have a sh1t fit....
Does anyone know a better way to fill this crap up??? I've never had to do a fluid exchange on a 4x4, much less a RWD car before...and I have done an ATF exchange in like 8 years....so I am open to suggestions that might keep my garage floor a little cleaner
