For differential oil, I would go with full-synthetic, 75W90 gear oil in the front and back. I usually use Walmart's Supertech full-synthetic gear oil or Mobil One. IIRC, you'll need about 5 quarts to cover both diffs. You'll need a 10mm hex socket for the drain plugs and, like the transfer case, use aluminum crush washers. To do both diffs and the transfer case, you'll need 6 washers, Nissan P/N 11026-4N200. I would highly recommend you get a fluid transfer pump, as it will make filling the diffs and the transfer case much easier. You can get them at Harbor Freight for just a few dollars:
http://www.harborfreight.com/multi-use- ... 66418.html
The LE has the AUTO mode transfer case, which takes a lot more fluid than the manual transfer cases used on other models. It'll take about 5 quarts and it specs Nissan Type "D" ATF or Dexron III/Mercon. I use Valvoline Maxlife ATF in the transfer case, which is a full-synthetic ATF that is compatible with Nissan-matic Type "D," "J" and "S." You can use it in your Pathy's auto transmission, transfer case and even in your P/S system (do not use "clear" P/S fluid sold in stores; you need to use auto transmission fluid). The best thing about Valvoline Maxlife ATF is that you can usually find it on one gallon jugs at Walmart for $17.50, which is far less expensive that Nissan-matic "S" at approximately $9/quart. So, if you are draining and filling the transmission, you'll need one gallon. If you are going to flush your P/S system, 2 quarts should be plenty. So, add it all together, you'll need about 11 quarts of Maxlife (I would just get 3 one gallon jugs).
The transmission drain plug uses the same copper crush gasket as the engine oil pan plug, Nissan 11026-01M02, which you can purchase on Ebay in bags or 5, 10, 20, or however many you want, at a cheaper price than the dealer. I believe the torque spec on all of the drain plugs is about 26 ft/lbs. I would also get a can of brake cleaner to clean up any residual oil when you get done servicing those items.
Engine coolant from the factory is Nissan green, which is the same as Pentosin Permafrost A2 green anti-freeze on the aftermarket, which Rockauto.com sells and you can get it on Ebay, if you want to stick with the original stuff. That's what I use in my Nissans, but, if you want to go with less expensive Prestone or Supertech "one color works will all" anti-freeze or any conventional green anti-freeze, like Peak, it'll work just fine. If you use concentrated anti-freeze, mix with distilled water, which sells at Walmart for less than a dollar.
You can download an owner's manual for free from the knowledge base at NissanHelp.com. You can also get technical service bulletins and factory service manual chapters (some of them, anyway):
http://x.nissanhelp.com/forums/local_li ... =10&page=2
If you don't have air bags installed in the rear, already, I would highly suggest them. A set of Airlift 1000 air bags will be the best $80 you'll invest in your Pathfinder and they are easy to install. A lot of people also replace the rear shocks with Bilstein HD's for a better ride.
If you'll be putting over 25,000 miles during your trip, you might consider replacing your spark plugs, as they will be due at 105,000 miles. Get NGK #6240 laser platinums, which are the original equipment plug. Check you air filter and cabin air filter, the latter is due every 15,000 miles. You should also consider replacing the wiper blades, front and rear, if they have any significant time on them. If the serpentine belt is original, I would also replace that, too, with Bando #7PK2217. If there is any noise or play in the belt tensioner, replace that, as well. Plugs, belt and tensioner, filters and blades are all available at Rockauto, as well.
I believe you have the C200. The C200 has 8 cover bolts and the M226 has 12 cover bolts.