Ok. Went with the Bilsteins. Had my local guy I use for all my auto repair install them. I just didn't have the time. But I have the ability and tools.
A few days later, after install, one of the shock rubber bushings tore at the top.
So I had them both replaced by the same repair shop. Something is still not right.
Did they forget a part? Or is the shock shaft too long? I'm going to pull the tire myself and look closer. Makes sounds that aren't ok either.