Well I completed the installation and it works perfectly. I can now use my phone features, play DVD's on the front LCD, access all the navigation features all while moving. I took some pictures along the way in case someone else wants to give it a try. Appoximate installation time for this Mod is one hour.
#1 remove the cup holder trim, A/T trim, center storage bin
#2 Remove 2 screws holding the A/V trim unit in place and pull to remove.
#3 Identify the parking brake signal wire (dark green) and speed signal wire (light Green) on connector M46 (its the largest connector) and cut the wires.
#4 Splice (4) short pieces of wire onto the wires you just cut using butt connectors and add spade connectors on the other end. (make sure to label your wires)
#5 Add a short piece of wire to the chassis. There is a easy place under a screw in the dash behind the AV unit.
#6 Pop the DPDT switch into the blank spot in the center console and terminate
Thats it! Your bypass is complete. enjoy!